Insane hiring manager rejects candidate for accepting a cup of coffee that was offered to her: 'She accepted a cup of coffee which is just really tacky'

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    Posted by u/BAAAUGH My manager's idiotic "test" for interviews Short This happened a few years ago and it still annoys me to think about to this day. This story is kind of the reverse of how most of the stories here go, so maybe it doesn't. fit... but Imk So, I used to work at a coffee shop, and we had this batty, loony-bird manager.
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    One day, one of our semi-regulars mentioned that she needed some part time work. We were hiring for part time, so I put in a good word for her, knowing she would have been an easy choice. She had a lot of experience and had a good rapport with everyone who worked there. She gets an interview. Manager sits down with her, offers her a coffee. She says sure, just a mug of drip coffee. They have the interview, and she leaves.
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    I ask my manager: "Well? Isn't she great?" Manager says: "She was okay, but she accepted a cup of coffee which is just really tacky." I thought she was joking. I ask: "Are you serious?" Manager says: "Yes! You should never accept something offered to you at an interview, that's so inappropriate." Her résumé was great, she's personable and already well-liked by all of her potential new co-workers, but she accepted a cup of coffee -- at an interview at a COFFEE SHOP -- so she's out.
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    The person who was hired instead was awful. She had never worked in the service industry before. She was to customers and got into arguments a lot with them. She also couldn't help dial in the coffee ever because -- hahaha -- she doesn't drink coffee due to her "impressive" caffeine allergy. And just for the record: Yes, you should accept the offer of coffee at an interview, if for no other reason than to avoid having to work with managers like this.
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    not a rop Frazzledragon What a dumbass power play, and so arbitrary. I can't even put the rest of my thoughts I have on this matter into words. 303 Reply Share . . .
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    BAAAUGH OP I told her I thought it would be more to refuse the coffee. She asserted that no, it's tacky to ever accept something like that, especially at a job interview. She also said that unless they've already been set out, she thinks it's to accept offers of snacks at friends' homes. I said "Then don't offer them!" She said "That would be , you should always offer" ...BONKERS 239 Reply Share • • •
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    Drachenfuer WHAT?!?! This is the exact oposite. I have been in probably hundreds on interviews, been on panels, worked with hiring professionals......and it was always the advice that when offered something in an interview you take it (unless allergic of course). If it is gross, then talk instead of eating or drinking then find a subtle way of getting rid of it. Did this attitude change recently? 41 Reply Share
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    BAAAUGH OP This was 5+ years ago, and no, I've never met anyone who agreed with her whenever I've told this story. So I don't think this is (or ever has been) a common attitude. This was a wacko individual who seemingly thought it was polite to offer something, but to
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    accept it. She also said she was annoyed when she offered snacks to friends who came over and they accepted. I told her "...then stop offering them snacks!" and she replied "No, that would be always offer," you should
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    Her rationale was: "I'm her potential new manager. I'm here to interview her, not to be taking her order and serving her coffee," and "If I really wanted to provide snacks to houseguests I would have them out already," I argued that it's only polite to offer something if it's an actual offer, and not some weird mental game! 23 Reply Share
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    Filthylucre4lunch accepts the coffee doesnt accept the job, accepts the job doesnt accept the coffee am i the only one who is fuming over this? 23 Reply Share BAAAUGH OP I was fuming at the time because I really didn't like working with the person who had quit and left the part time position open. I was excited for a new, solid
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    coworker. Then for a great candidate to be snubbed over this bizarre test... and then we all had to endure two months of being short- staffed only for the eventual replacement to be just as bad... 26 Reply Share • • •
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    try-catch-finally Anytime someone comes out with a “rule” that is clearly just pulled fresh from their go ahead and ask- “that's I interesting- can you give an example of any other (rational) company that does that?" 42 Reply Share yogor3 Brilliant response. 2 Reply Share
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    InfoSecPeezy I had a doozy years ago. I was interviewing for a role at a large entertainment company, the name rhymes with Rome Fox Moffice. It was a sys admin role and for one of my first jobs in the real world. I was about 22 at the time. Woman manager's first comments on my suit and how nice it is (I saved up a lot for it). She asks me to tell her about
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    myself, I start talking about all of my theoretical knowledge and my experience. She stops me and asks how tall I am, weird. I tell her I am 6'2" and a libra, being as jovial as possible about the weird question. She stands up and comes around her desk to face me, again, weird. I am getting really nervous and uncomfortable. She then starts asking me some
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    technical questions and I answer them. She tries to trip me up and she even tells me that one of my answers were wrong (it wasn't). She then puts her hand on my arm and looks me in the eye and tells me that the next part will be the determining factor for my employment. I'm nervous, uncomfortable and at this point, I don't want to work for this woman.
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    She then asks me to rank myself on a scale of 1-5, 5 being the lowest on a bunch of technical skills. I confidently answer 4 or 5 for most of the skills. We end the interview, she thanks me for coming in, hugs me (extremely weird) and informs me that based on my own evaluation, I don't have the necessary skills required. I'm puzzled. She then restates how I was to rate myself from 1-5, 5 being the lowest.
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    Bullet dodged. Glad I never worked for this woman. The entire interview felt like an awkward test. 13 Reply Share
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    loricat I'm curious, what would happen if you casually offered this manager a coffee? 10 Reply Share • • •
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    Outrageous-Host-3545 Had a coffee shop manager like that. I put in an application all is well got a date for an interview. Rode Mike bike to the interview had on khakis and a solo shirt. She said I was not dressed up enough and it was inappropriate to ride a bike to work. I was 15 at the time. She gave me a second interview to make up for it. I did not go back. They were only in business like 6 months total. 8 Reply Share
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    Tired Retired Nurse. So does your boss think you should not accept your paycheck when it is offered? 7 Reply Share

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